@Joy yeah it's probably unfortunately why I don't really have friends. 🥺
I’ve been dealing with the same situation and cut friendship with someone of 10 years, at first was sad but then felt this huge relief come off. Realized I was more worried for her and cared about her feelings over my own and I really needed to care for me, which is why I was mentally drained to begin with. Hoe this helps and know it does get better!
Honestly, it doesn't sound like they're really someone that benefits your mental health. I distanced myself from everyone that was like that to me and Im making new friends that understand my situation