Breavement

I have no advice as I’ve never been through this but I just want to tell you how sorry I am to hear this! Lots of you love to you ⭐️🩷

I’m so sorry to hear that. I don’t know your religious beliefs, but I’ll be praying for you and baby to feel peace and comfort during this difficult time. 💞 My best advice is to pray and seek the Lord.

I’m so sorry to hear this I can’t imagine how you are feeling right now. Please try and believe your mum is watching over and guiding you through motherhood, she is still by your side every step of the way. Show her how much of a brilliant mum you will be xx

Hey mama. Sending my condolences to you 🕊️🤍 My grandma which raised me since I was born passed away around a couple months ago now. I was around 12 weeks pregnant I think, I’m 20 weeks now.. she also suddenly was unwell and then she caught pneumonia at the hospital which is what took her life. She was so full of life and she was healthy we swore she’d make it to 100 so I was very devastated. I had never felt so much grief in my life. I was scared I’d have a MC, but we’re still going strong thank God. After she passed I found out officially that the baby is a girl! So I plan to name her after my grandma and late sister. That’s been a bit healing, but it still hurts. I had planned before she got sick and I had recently found out I was pregnant to travel after having my baby so she could meet them in August. I was so devastated… she didn’t even get to meet my son in person I brought him with me, but in Colombia the hospitals are strict and didn’t let my son go into the room so he was the..

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… only great grandchild she did not get to meet. I try to think about how she last touched my bump and felt my baby girl at least. It’s been really hard. I still cry. Sooner or later it’ll get a bit easier. It won’t go away, but the grief will be less heavy. Sending you hugs, love, and peace.

You’re not alone and it’s okay for this to hurt. It means you loved and were loved so much. Grief is just love that doesn’t know where to go.

@Kianna thank you for sharing and condolences to you and your family 🤍 Such a lovely idea naming your daughter after her. Sending you peace and healing during this time. Each day will get easier, I need to remember to tell myself this as well.

@Kaya thank you so much for your lovely words 🤍 x

@Bethany thank you 🤍 definitely take it day by day 🫶🏼 it’s okay to feel all the feelings and don’t feel guilty for crying. It won’t hurt your baby. Let those tears flow and wash any pain away. Don’t hold it in. Sending you again, so much love.

My dad passed away 3 months before my little boy arrived and I honestly was so scared to cry or breakdown but after talking to my midwife she assured me that it's ok to cry. My little boy is now 3 weeks and I cry most nights when I'm up with him for feeds because I think about my dad.

Think of you and your family xx

I’m so sorry, sending so much love to you as that’s just heartbreaking. You can and you will get through this because you’re a strong, capable woman and your mum made you that way. She’s with you in lots of ways you don’t realise because of how she raised you, and she always will be. Now it’s your turn to do that for your little one ❤️

I have dropped you a message x