How many people still find their partner attractive after having children?

I honestly have felt more attracted as I’ve had kids no matter if he got a haircut recently or not I’m 9mo pp I think it also depends how your dynamic is is he treating you well

I put yes as in yes this is normal.

I’m not quite so sexually driven any more due to body dysmorphia and exhaustion but I’m still very very much 100% attracted to my man still maybe even more so over the last almost 12 years 🥰

@Leanne.E.Ryan I have this exact problem I can’t let loose bc I hateeee my body and low drive.

Depends what you mean. I'm 100% still attracted to my partner. Do I want to have sex though? Totally different story! I'm tired. Don't really feel all that sexy and then I'm breastfeeding so there's a whole slight oddness around boobs and sex at the moment. I mean we've had sex since I've had our LG, but nowhere near the frequency we did before!

I find him attractive but I have absolutely no libido. We have sex every so often and it’s amazing like 95% of the time but the 5% I’m just really not feeling it, but that’s nothing to do with him or his attractiveness. I also breastfeed, and have a VERY clingy 12mo and a very clingy 3yo so every day I’m just feeling very touched out, so sex is the last thing on my mind. It was the same with my eldest, I got my first pp period when he was 15m, and got pregnant the cycle after 😅 so there was 1 or 2 months where I had a sex drive but I also don’t have great pregnancies.

Lol I have 0 sex drive, 0 libido and I don’t find him attractive anymore also 🫠 so I get you Also I’m tired 24/7 and mentally drained