Would you stay with a guy who can't get it up

I can't cum sometimes because I'm an overthinker and have had trauma So I get it but.. still.. wwyd?! I'm starting to chat with ppl again to see what's out there
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Yeah, I’d stick around if he struggled to get it up. Viagra exists for a reason! The real question is…are you both happy and, more importantly, are you still willing to make things work?

Sex is a big part of being in a relationship for me so I can understand the frustration. Apart from the bedroom is he a good man? Do you see a future with him? I think there are things you can do to figure it out together. But, it kinda seems like you don’t want to work on it or might be over the relationship if you’re “starting to chat with ppl again to see what’s out there”. You can be putting your time and energy into the relationship instead of chatting with other people if you’re wanting to be with this man. Either way, it’s not fair to him if you haven’t broken it off with him yet talking to other men.

If our sex life was great anyway, with plenty of foreplay, toys and intimacy then yes. Obviously the rest of the relationship should be good too but p in v is not the be all end all

If you’re already talking to other people then leave he doesn’t deserve that

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