I’m in the same boat. FTM and i am just starting BLW.
i felt the same way, very anxious and nervous about how BLW was going to go but trust me it gets better i also just started like last week,, we started with simple things like bananas, steamed broccoli, and toast which he did so well on that i just started going on pinterest and finding other recipes like pancakes and fritters they need time to figure out what is to much food and when they do they spit it out babies are smart and they don’t want to choke,, maybe just do a refresh on cpr just incase i always give something he can hold and then like a smoothie, i used to work in a nursery and they did the same thing - some cracker then pureed food and it’s only 4 babies at a time eat
It absolutely gets better with time. Like any skill, the more it’s worked at the more it progresses. He won’t be behind, try not to stress yourself out too much about it. Not every baby self feeds yet, but he will get it. Just keep giving him opportunities to work on his new skill. ❤️