Would u walk away?...

So tonight I made some cupcakes 🧁 (10) my fellas mum had 1, my son had 1 and I had 5 so there was 3 left and as my fella notice he said "god how many have u had?" So I said a few 😂 he then turned around and said "u don't just eat them all in 1 day u know" 🤦‍♀️ like making me feel sooo small 😭 literally cried within seconds of that comment plus has a go at me if I have more then 1 can of coke in a day and says "no wonder your always i'll" I'm barely ever I'll. It's getting me down that he has a go at me even what I spend my money on but it's OK for him to buy loads on Very/sports direct/Nike etc 🤦‍♀️ he's in debt I ain't 💁‍♀️🤣 I suffer with depression and anxiety as it is. What would u do? Stay with him (considering your practically a single mum, as if u ask him to do stuff he moans or goes off in a huff) Or would u walk, be single again and start again and bring up a 2yr old single handed? Please help 🙏
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Honey, you should read back what you wrote as if you’re your own best friend then decide what to do. Never settle for anything less than the best 🫶🏻

Is it said with love or control? I’d totally tease my hubby if he ate 5 cakes. Only you know if it’s being done in a nasty way or not.

Have you told him that you find these comments hurtful? I’d try that first and see if he apologies and changes his behavior.

I personally wouldn't be upset by those comments, as my partner occasionally says something similar and I know he's genuinely joking with me, he's not deliberately trying to upset me or anything.

@Cal same, my partner teases me if I eat a whole chocolate bar in one sitting 😅

My partner would probably say this in a joking way to me but I can tell by how he said it, only you know if he was being off and nasty with it or not. My ex husband would stand in front of me and read out how many sugars, calories, fat etc in food, snacks cans of coke in front of me whilst negatively lecturing me about what I would eat and drink. He would do this with every little thing. He also told me women should have flat stomachs n be no bigger than 8/10 size. I said well I was a 12 when we got together I'm maybe 12/14 now and also I have never had a flat stomach so.... I'd say talk to him and tell him how upset you were and then if it continued you would know his actually being horrible

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