You're doing what is best for you and your children. You got it this!
My mental health has also been suffering and you’re inspiring me. YOU’RE CHOOSING TO GET BETTER AND NOT CONTINUE TO BE UNHEALTHY. That is always the best choice a mother can make. I wish you luck and am sending you love and prayers ❤️
You’re doing one of the hardest and bravest things a mother can do—choosing to heal so you can give your babies the best version of yourself. It’s okay to feel scared, but remember this: love isn’t just about being present; it’s about being whole. Taking this step shows incredible strength and selflessness and I know I’m a complete stranger but I am deeply moved by this and proud of you. This is not a step back—it’s the start of something better for you and your little ones. You’ve got this, and you are not alone. Please feel free to hit me up anytime mama.. you’ve got this and we are rooting for you! 🫶🏾🤎
I have been exactly where you were a few times. My two year old was murdered by my ex 11 years ago. Of course I was totally devastated but after a year or so I just didn’t think about it and put in towards the back. I was also so medicated I didn’t feel which I think is what kept me alive. I tried to kill myself and that’s when I got help the first time. My daughter was only 5 months when my son passed. Her dad got custody and now looking back it was what needed to happen and he is a wonderful father. If I would have succeeded in ending my life, my son who’s 4 wouldn’t be alive or this baby another son who’s due in March. I know for me I felt defeated anytime I needed outside help but I no longer feel this way. It will get better and you are taking the first steps to have a wonderful full life for you and your children! Proud of you momma! Hugs from Austin, Texas!
Oh anyways I got really bad mentally and ended up losing my son when he was 18 months, I was also drinking to self medicate as I had gotten off the meds that made me numb so I had never actually dealt with my sons loss and had to do that. I ended up getting my son back right before his 3rd birthday! Have been sober almost a year now. Pregnant with another son and feeling blessed! It’s not always easy but even my hardest days are so much better sober! Feeling like the mom I always knew I could be! Going to the hospital is the right step for you to get a hold of life and improve your situation! Good job momma! You got this!
Wishing you all the best in getting healthy sending virtual hugs from Canada
@Kira oh girl if you can make it through that I can make it through my situation ! That was some really horrible stuff but you made it here too! 💗 SOOOOOO Proud of you! 🫶🏽✨🥹 ITS HARD BUT MOMS CAN DO HARD THINGS !!
Thank you all for your words of love ! I’m snuggling my babies now and then I’m leaving to cry in the car on the way and then I gotta be strong ! 💪🏽💗🫶🏽 HERE WE GO!!!! 🤞🏽🥹 ✨
I too am seeking out help for my mental health and I've been trying to find some therapists that I can reach out to. It is so important to take care of yourself no matter what anybody else has to say about it. It's you and your family and your mental health comes first and then you'll be able to take care of them, babies properly, more regulated and more healthy. 👏🏻👏🏻♥️♥️
So proud of you x
I’m so proud of you for recognizing what you need to do to be the best mommy for your babies! I’m SOOOO proud of you! Don’t be upset that you need some help, everyone does at times! Just being able to recognize you need extra help is absolutely amazing and you should be so proud of yourself! Your babies will thank you in the long run for doing what you need for your mental health!