Am I in the wrong?

So last night my husband and I got into an argument and it blew up more than it should have. Well, he goes to shower at about 6pm and he comes out the shower and says “I’m going to bed”. Before this we discussed dinner but did not discuss who would cook. Anyways, since he was going to bed and I had some leftovers I did not cook. Later on I go shower and he wakes up and he ask “did you cook”. I said, “no I had leftovers and made an egg”. He says, “I was going to wake up at 5am and eat, I am starving now and I can’t sleep”. I say, “do you want me to make you something or bring you crackers”? He said no. After all of that he says “I’m so mad at you I don’t want to talk to you”. I said, “why are you still talking” *yes that was wrong*… Well I have been feeling pretty bad due to my pregnancy and today was no different, so I was a bit happy I wasn’t going to cook. Anyways I go to bed and he gets up and says, “ima go and cook so me and my son can have something to eat tomorrow”… I don’t know if I’m in the wrong or not.

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You're not in the wrong, he's being petty

Tell him to grown up 😂 the guy said he’s going to bed. He went to bed. If he’s hungry tell him to get off his ass and cook, you’re not his on call chef. Especially if your relieved your not cooking, you probably needing a bit of time to not cook. You’re pregnant, if you’re not up for doing things he should be understanding. Sorry i know that probably sounds harsh but he sounds childish as fuck. You even offered to make him something which is so sweet.

Nope. He decided to go to bed without eating then complains that he’s hungry like that’s your problem to fix 🤨 Then he tries to guilt trip you about food being for your son. Like it’s such a hardship to cook his child a meal. Give me a break 🙄

Sounds like me and my husband lol it’s fine you needed a break and you didn’t think you needed to cook he should’ve been more clearer if he wanted you to cook

Nope, not in the wrong. While it wasn't discussed, who would cook. He shouldn't have assumed that you would, just like you didn't assume that he would. He's grown and can make his own food. The last comment he made was childish/petty and his way of throwing a Jab at you cause he's in his feelings

He’s being a petty little (insert whatever word you want). You are absolutely not in the wrong and I can’t believe he bought your son into it like that as if you’re not feeding him all day long anyway!!!

He's acting like a big man baby 🙄

@Dominique yeah he just texted me “I was really mad at you last night. Still kinda am. Skipping dinner and acting like a whiny bitch after i woke up wasnt the best way for me to handle it, I'll admit. I don't really remember much about waking up. I just know i went into the kitchen and took the pork out and put it back and fell asleep.”

Honestly, I don't get why he's mad. If your combined expectations weren't managed, then he has no business being angry. I'd clear the air about it tho

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