Soooo done
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My bd is like this. We broke up 2 weeks ago.
What a loser! My fiance has been off work recently,therefore all night feeds have been split 50/50, as they should be! We do 3 on 3 off
I completely feel for you sis, mine was about to buy a video game AFTER my 4 month old was born and I sternly said that we are going to have problems if you do. Put your foot down state everything that you do and let him know where he needs to pick up the slack. Don’t let him manipulate you and know that you are worthy of a partner that does the work too. If he really gets on your nerves the game system can just turn up damaged out of nowhere 🤷🏾♀️ maybe one of the kids did it 😌 but only use that as a final straw
I'd try a different approach to talk it out. I can't say I understand because I breastfed all my 3 boys.. none liked drinking from bottles, so my husband couldn't help me there. I hardly slept either way. But if it were me.. I'd lock myself with baby & let him handle everything else.. have snacks & waters in your room.. do the other kids just run to you instead of him? Disconnect the Playstation & hide the cord 😅 blame it on the kids.. idk somehow, he's gotta snap out of it..
Girl. Leave that man.
And let me say this.. I was a single mom for ten years. Meaning I dated and had boyfriends, but paid all my own bills, purchased my own house, cars, etc... I'm married now... Parenting is 10000 times harder with my husband and step kids. And I love them dearly, but it is still so much more complicated and difficult. And my husband HELPS. So if it's this hard for me with a good man, I promise being a single mom will be easier for you.
Oh I feel this girl! Mine does the same but he has never done a night or nap time... he complains he can't stand for too long and bounce her to sleep. And don't get me started on the video games....... Sending you the strength to leave him because I'm not far behind you 💕
Yeah I would take baby for an overnight trip to a family member or friend’s house so he can see all you do for the kids. I would say lock urself in your room with the baby, but I don’t know about you I can’t ignore kids that need something so I’ll get up and do it anyway if I’m there.
Yeah I’d be livid. I think guys who play videos games and have kids at home are out of their literal mind. I’m not gonna sit here and tell you to leave but definitely try to do therapy or at least do some research on how to effectively communicate your needs and not get triggered by him. Do everything you can before giving up. Bc y’all have a child together so now it’s serious :( Can’t imagine what hed be doing with his kids if you left him and they no longer had you to watch them while daddy plays video games. That’s so childish. Even you go see a therapist yourself to try and process all of this and find solutions if he isn’t willing to. Also… I cant afford therapy if I wanted to idk what insurance you have or if you can access that kind of care but it seems like a very problematic environment for you, like you couldn’t feel safe leaving the kids in his care… if you ever have. I’m sorry :( none of that is okay.