Partners birthday

Depends on the reason and if it was every year plus the day his birthday falls. We can always celebrate that weekend. Our birthdays are two days apart anyway which is why I wouldn’t be bothered. I’m sure my 30th I spent my birthday at a spa.

i would be upset if he didn’t make time for us to celebrate with him. if he wants to spend the day with his friends then everyone should be open to celebrating another day. it’s his day after all. if you had something planned already and he wanted to hang out with his friends instead knowing about the plans THEN i would be offended for sure

We always do both he’ll do something just me and him like i’ll take him for dinner or we’ll go out somewhere then he might go out for food and drinks with his best friends that night or the night before and we’ll do something with his family on the Sunday

I mean I don't think moms asking for a birthday away from the kids is inherently not okay, so not inherently. I'd probably just do cake and celebrate with him & the kids before the actual day of that he wants to spend with friends.

I always want to spend my birthday with my friends and not my husband and the kids 😂 We just make a dinner date and celebrate alone with eachother on a different day!

Yes I’d be pissed