Am I wrong

He can still be in her life. It’s called coparenting. Do not mentally drain yourself . Leave it’s better for you

Start stacking your money and leave . He can be still in y’all child life . I was in the same situation I left three years later over 50times getting checked on while pregnant and all . Me and my baby father was together for 7 years . I It’s never going to stop unless he wanting to and willing to. Love him from a distance

@Kayla I’ve tried he’s just a narcissist and each time i try to pack up and leave he takes my car keys and refuses to give them back until the next day

@Simone Ik and it’s just hard bc he doesn’t understand how bad he hurt me like dude you fucking cheated while I was pregnant. I’ve tried stacking my money but it’s going to a joint account

Does he work? Leave when he is at work

I would leave. Right now, he is controlling you. Do not let him. Your Dad's house might be overcrowded, but it's better than what you are dealing with at home, and it's only temporary. It sounds like he is verbally and emotionally abusing you. Leave him and make it legal. Do not contact him except about your daughter and have everything in writing. There is an app you can use. Someone else may be able to remember the name, but it's used when there shouldn't be unmonitored contact between parents for custodial or safety purposes. Please prioritise your daughter and your mental health and leave. I've read some of your comments; contact the bank about your account, you can switch so your money isn't going into a joint account, ask a friend or family member to help you move or call for a police chaperone, does he work? You are being abused, and you and your daughter need to leave. This is not a safe environment.

I was in the exact situation, my bd cheated on me since I was 6 months pregnant. It took me almost killing myself multiple times to leave bc he’d tell me “how dare I have the audacity to do that in his home”, I reflected on my parents relationship and how I’d pray that they’d divorce bc I hated seeing them together. The damage it caused to me was tremendous and I refused to let my daughter suffer the same things. My bd used the same arguments of “we need to be a family etc” but if he wanted to be a family he never would’ve put you in that position. I left him 2 days before Christmas bc he was going to propose and it was clear to me that he never loved me and never listened or cared. You’re much better on your own that with a bs piece of shit who disrespects you. You can do it

Just because you have a child together doesn’t mean you have to be together. Raising a child in a Home that does nothing but argue (it may not be like this now but it could turn into a screaming match in the future) does more damage than in 2 homes. He can still be in her life and coparent. If you can find a friend, get on housing assistance if your county/country have it. There’s resources for single mothers. You can do it without him.

I would leave.. you’re never going to be able to trust him again and his behavior is not helping. He should have thought about wanting to keep yall together before he cheated but he can’t MAKE you stay.. you might not like the other options but there are options. When you get tired, you’ll leave.

@LeKenya I’m so beyond tired and I’ve told him that so many times to the point I don’t even say anything anymore. We don’t kiss unless we have sex which isn’t often bc I’m repulsed by him I don’t call him babe baby or anything anymore, I just sit and think about if he’s thinking about other women and it’s driving me insane

Incognito, please leave this man.

I’ve been through this.. that’s how I know you won’t ever be able to trust him again. I even went to counseling. It doesn’t get any better. Nothing is going to change the fact that he showed you that he’s capable of cheating on you. Nothing is going to change the fact that, in that moment, you weren’t enough for him. Regardless if you know you’re enough, he didn’t and you’re not going to forget no matter how much you want to. You deserve a love you can TRUST so that when you give of yourself, you can give FULLY and love without boundaries. Even if you figure out how to forgive HIM, it’s going to be hard to ever love him the way you deserve to love someone. Leave. For your peace and happiness. Your child doesn’t deserve to grow up in a home where the love isn’t genuine. They learn what they’re presented.. it becomes their NORM. You don’t want your daughter accepting a relationship where she gets cheated on so don’t expose her to that and make it seem like it’s okay.