Judgment

It's no one's business love. Lie and say it is a medical reason. That way they keep their opinion to themselves. Good luck! 💜

@Jackie thanks Jackie! It’s jusy frustrating me that people think it is their business (I feel like I can pick these people in my life out already). Sadly I’m a shit liar and feel like I’ll just end up angry at any opinions 🤣

Ya unfortunately your gonna find that a lot in motherhood. Everyone has an opinion on what's better. At the end of the day you do what's best for you. Unless they are paying your bills or doing it for you they can bite it. 😋

Hi! How was it booking an elective c-section without medical reasons? I have spoken to the midwife, and she was great but got to speak to the doctors in a few weeks about booking mine. Mine is mainly mental health reasons. Tia x

@Chloe hey Chloe, I’ll be honest I think I got unlucky with the doctor. She was pretty harsh with telling me the risks and was judgmental on my reason, mine to was partly mental heath. She had the cheek to tell me my choice meant I wasn’t coping and I’ll struggle with a baby🙃 However she still booked me in and didn’t tell me no at all. She just had a lot to say which I felt was unnecessary. It’s your choice on what birth option to choose so as long as they tell you the risks, if you’re sure you want to take that route then stand your ground and you will get it. Most people I have spoken to about this have said their gps have been more supportive than my experience. Hopefully yours is the same 😁 Good luck