Need advice for 3rd birthday girl.

So I’m a really introverted kind of person and I haven’t made much mom friends with kids her age. I have one friend but she has a baby baby. Doesn’t even crawl yet. (Met 1 year ago) Another who has a 4 yr, (friend of 15 years) Neighbor with 3 and 4 yr old (just met 2 years ago.) Another neighbor with 1 and 3 yr (met 2 years ago) Friend with 2 yr (15 yr friend) Cousin who is 3 (but husband is in bad circumstances with his sister) to the point they’re not talking anymore. But all those people except for the first one, I barely talk to or see and so does my daughter. Would it be wrong to invite them to her birthday? In order to book this one place, there must be 10 kids. And cheaper than the second place we would go. Has an arcade, play gym, toddler water room, indoor regular size carousel. With food drinks and a play card for the arcade. A party host. Paper supplies. 90 minutes for table. Tier prices vary, 139.99, 199.99 or 239.99. Needs 10’kids and more expensive. And only has a play gym. No time limit on table. Comes with food and drinks. 399.99 for pizza and cake, outside food. Or 299.99 with no outside food and only cake. What do I do? My kids two kids are in daycare and we haven’t met any of the parents or kids. Idk if I should try and invite them??? Any advice would be helpful.

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I would go ahead and invite first so you have a general idea of how many and go from there. If theirs not too many I'd just do it at home

@Tiffanie I would like to do it at home as well anyway but husband really want to have it out of the house.

@Tiffanie how do you invite first without booking a time a date at a place? What if the time and date or not available or is literally taken before anyone responds.

What I did was send an invite and ask to rsvp by a certain date and put for location tbd. When I plan for my daughters I asked at least a month in advanced. I also talked to her daycare teacher to see who she is friends with and I invited from there. Her class has kids 18 months and up so she doesn't really interact with the much younger kids

I'm also an introvert so I really push myself to meet other moms when we are out in public. Kids at that age don't know strangers and love interacting with kids their age