I have one child and I tore giving birth. It was my fault because I had gained too much weight and wasn’t being active or exercising. It did go back to normal though. But no worries, you will be fine.
I tired also. Goes back to normal. At least mine did. It's like getting stitches anywhere else on the body. Helps close it. It heals.
I did not tear. I was pretty much back to normal by my 6 week check! I sprung back!
Thank you all so much!!!
i didn’t tear , as soon as the swelling went down for me (literally within a couple days) i was normal again :) i also make *content* for a living so i am confident in saying that bc there is before and after proof LOL & for the record i gained 25 pounds in the pregnancy :-)
So I think it kinda changes the way it looks after a few kids. I never tore and I hope I don’t with this one either but we shall see! Baby number 4 for me! I think in general you heal better or quicker the less trauma you have down there.