Overwhelmed with number of appointments

Can I decline pre birth visit from the community midwife ? Currently consultant led and I’m seeing the doctor and midwife on alternate weeks not to mention additional testing. I haven’t started maternity leave yet and we are in the process of packing up ready to move house so it’s just a lot at the moment. I mentioned this to my midwife and she told me I can skip the health visitor appointment but I’m curious to see what they have to say as she barely remembers anything we talk about and not had the best experience with her so far. Eg I’ve reminded her every appointment we are packing to move .I don’t have the energy to have her in my space and explain the situation again and end up being flagged for not being baby ready because we have boxes of stuff in the living room and the corridor has been taken over by the pram and car seat etc. Maybe I’m being sensitive because I’m very house proud and don’t like people visiting unless everything is in its place. And currently I don’t seem to be able to control anything so if it’s not necessary I would rather she doesn’t come to our house.