Just need a rant

Baby daddy ended our relationship 5 days after I’d given birth to our darling boy. We had a huge argument and he decided that was enough. I know I’m responsible for my actions and for what I say. But he just doesn’t seem to get that I’d just had a traumatic birth and am not myself. He hadn’t been very supportive in the last few months of pregnancy and I basically did the last bit alone. I’m speaking to my GP tomorrow as I believe I have postpartum depression and my health visitor agrees. I’ve never felt so alone or low in my whole life. We’re now 16 days postpartum and he’s already speaking to other women (I’ve known for a couple of days so unsure how long he’s been talking to them). He says that’s not moving on because he hasn’t actively met any of them. I disagree. He is staying at my house most nights as I don’t want to be made out to be stopping him seeing our son. But I know he’s here messaging them and it’s breaking my heart. I just want to be supported and feel loved. I want to be cuddled as I’m going through such a bad time, which just sounds silly now I’m writing it. I’m just really struggling.

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Girl wtf???? 😳 Please wake up asap!!! If this didn’t wake u up and kick his ass out idk what will . Oh hell no. Ur too nice and u will resent urself for not loving urself . I’m speaking from experience

My heart goes out to you I was in a similar situation 🫂💙 take care of yourself and leave him in the past. I know it can be heartbreaking and devastating leaving not only him but the dream of a family of for your own mental peace and respect in my own opinion you should get therapy and start focusing on you and your baby boy 💙 a happy momma makes a happy baby. It seems by him talking to other ppl already he wasted no time. Is there any other way to arrange him seeing the baby, do you think having a family member or best friend stay with you while he’s there be a good support for you?

@Luz so real after my own experience I resent myself the most for not sticking up for myself .

It’s not silly at all I can relate even though time has passed. It’s completely reasonable to just want to be loved and cared abt after giving birth not dealing w someone being nonchalant or just thinking abt their self scouting for other females. He’s probably still a little boy mentally. Don’t worry eventually you will feel better get help and do things whenever possible for yourself.

I'm sorry you're going through this. Men are trash.

Probably not the best advice but I’ll give it. Get yourself on a dating app and message on that dating app infront of his face, or send a message to your friend and smile/laugh make sure he’s watching. Not saying this is going to fix anything but it sounds to be that he’s checked out already. How someone can message other women when they have a 16 days old little boy is beyond me. He shouldn’t have the fucking time to even look at his phone! Men really make me sick!

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