Don't stress, I feel like there's so many things out of our control, weather, illness etc, it's my son's 4th b'day tomorrow, we had his party arranged at the playground today and he came out in spots all over him just in time for his birthday!🙄 we have had a party every year for him & his 20y.o sister, we actually had 4x parties booked for different circles of friends, cousins, daycare, preschool & playgroup friends and I've had to cancel them all yesterday 😔🤷♀️
We had one booked at our local Billabong, one at the splashpark, a BBQ at the playground and 1 at bowling 🎳 and when asked what he wants all he said was he wants to go to 7-11 for a slurpee!🥤🤣🤣🤣
Pin the tail on the donkey(or whatever character), piñata(but they may have to do it with no blindfold), obstacle course, musical chairs, red light/green light(if you have space), flip cup(obviously no alcohol 😉), arts and crafts. At this age, I doubt they will remember much of the party so don't have to go crazy. Pizza + prizes + 1 or 2 activities and they are happy. Honestly, I've been to plenty of 4 year old parties where they just had tables + toys and the kids found plenty to do with each other.