Is this weird or am I over sensitive?

My partner adds his ex’s - not all just a particular 2, on every fb account he makes. We’ve been together just over 3 years, have a home, daughter and dog together. Talking about getting ready for baby number 2. But This one ex is from 13 years ago. Before me and my partner got together we were really good friends for years so I heard all the stories about all the exes with no filter. He didn’t break up with her, his first love, she had kids before she got with him, he was never a dad role in their life or even had a bond with them from what he’s always told me. But she’s always in the background. Messages from a council tax bill in her name she sent to him with bailiffs because they lived together. He never tells me if and when she messages him or visa versa. The other ex. She’s always trying to stay relevant. Asking for money throughout our relationship off him. They were once engaged. He tells me all the time how he took her to the most romantic place in the world and blah blah blah but in arguments he threatens to break up with me. At Christmas he was leaving me because I called him Scrooge. My point is. He knows I don’t like it. I’ve made it clear many times. But he still does it. He said it would be weird if he took her off. To me that tells me he cares more about hurting her feelings than mine. They’re not friends. I don’t get it. Am I overthinking or is it weird? I’m getting red flag vibes tbh

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It’s very disrespectful in my opinion. Unless they have kids together there is no point in being friends with an ex on a social media app. None of my exes need to be looking at what I have going on. That’s very strange that he is so adamant of keeping her on there. Also why is an ex asking your partner for money? She needs to figure it out.

That is weird but is there any reason you guys aren't married? You guys have a home together, dog and kid, and trying to have another but aren't legally committed. And then the fact that he's still dealing with exes and threatening to break up and leave, I'd be concerned that he's not truly devoted to your relationship or what you guys have.

Definitely weird and it does seem like he cares more about their feelings then yours.

Sorry but that’s not a man. With a family and a home and another baby on the way you’d think his priorities are straight.. but he is moving like he is single. A man who associates himself with other women especially an ex, stay far away from him, it’s only a matter of time that it isn’t going to end well. Also goes to show that he cares more about hurting their feeling than yours. The fact that he’s making them stay relevant and not considering your feelings at all is very weird. Furthermore, you shouldn’t even have to ask, he shouldn’t be in contact with them, follow them or even look in that direction whatsoever. Sorry but that is wild.