The mini u range (they have their own website but i buy off amazon) they have so many different products i find them to be so delicate which is perfect. They also smell amazing. But for a kind of diy fix i use a small bit of conditioner on a brush and run in through their hair.
Aloe Vera. Natural and beneficial in multiple ways for hair. Styles, tames, conditions, protects against damage, provides nutrients, etc..
Flax seed gel made from flax seeds and water it got my baby’s hair so pretty and shiny and curly
Whatever you try, practice before the day of pictures so you aren't rushing to wash it and restyle it if you don't like how it looks
Would coconut oil be too greasy? Maybe just a little bit. Not sure how long her hair is. It’s natural and smells good 🤷♀️