Me again/ Religion
So, I guess I just want to find out what the norm is…
If you were to ever been asked who comes first in your life. How would your response look like?
I know this might look different if we include religion/ relationship with God but also it might not look too different.
I would say my daughter comes first then myself, then my partner. Even if I was a believer and I was asked to choose between my daughter and God I believe in my gut I would choose my daughter. I could also put myself first because if I am not okay my daughter wont be okay and neither will my partner. I could also prioritize my partner for other stuff. But i need to know what other people think. How many of you would choose God over your significant others?
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Me, kids, husband I am a person first.
I would choose God first, then Husband, then Children because God is the best teacher for how we can prioritize our other relationships, and if my marriage is failing, my kids will get the brunt of it. I need a healthy relationship with God, to have the best relationship with my husband and children. The reverse, in my opinion, would actually be more destructive than good.
Me then my marriage
For me: God, husband then kids
My kids are first, then my mom, then my husband.
I would say, my babies didn't ask to be here, that was my partner and I decision, so my kids are first, then my partner, then my siblings, I practically raised.