Husband and mistress

Would I be a bad wife if I got my husband a mistress? I’m really considering it, he pushed me way over the line with his disrespect to me so instead of “secretly” screenshotting females thinking I don’t know about it I am really thinking of finding him a mistress and if she can get him to do anything with her I’ll leave with no fuss and not even kidding hand the house keys over to her and even help her move in and me move out while he’s at work. Yes, some of your will see this as stupid or petty or whatever but for the type of boy he is, this will hit him hard. Oh and obviously I’ll divorce him if/when he does anything with the mistress.

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Respectfully. What’s the point. Sounds like you already wanna leave

Like chi said. If you wanna leave you do not need to find him a replacement.

Agree. If he’s that disrespectful why waste another moment on him? Why waste that time and energy? Worry about yourself and kiddo now, leave him to make his own mess.

I’m so confused why

Finding your husband a mistress isn't how it should be done and it sounds like a "test" which is just a slap in the face to your partner. If you are done just leave amicably so you can xoparent

Just leave love. You are not happy, and you should not contribute to his happiness if he ain’t doing it for you. I would just leave and leave the searching for him.

I don’t have a child with him. At first he wanted a child with me until his ex wife came back into the picture with there son after 2 years of disappear on him and now he won’t have a child with me because of his ex wife. My car, the house almost everything I have now he had with his ex wife meaning same exact make and model of car same house he lived in with her and more.

I think your comparing yourself to her bc your hurt honestly and you need to stop there. Your marriage and you yourself will never be like the one he had. There tends to be a lot of hurt feelings I highly suggest setting boundaries with him like hey this bothers me and if you did it again I’m going to have to … and let him choose for himself. I’m sorry he changed his mind about a child maybe tell him that hurts you. He’s your husband you have to open up to him.

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