Is it because you’re pregnant? I’ve heard of people that can’t stand their partner when they are pregnant.. maybe that’s the hormones talking. If not, you may want to explore these feelings and how you allowed yourself to have not just one but two kids by a man you hate..
So...i hate to even admit this, but I'm in the same boat (kinda). My husband told me this weekend that he hated the way i make him feel and that he wanted a divorce. Reason... because we barely have sex. Coming from someone on the other side... talk to him. I don't want my marriage to end. I had no idea what i was doing to him, and I'd rather fix things than lose him. We moved to a new state where i don't know anybody and have zero support and we have two kids. I'm allays exhausted or just never seem to find the time. Those are excuses though...i need to make the time. Seriously, talk to him. It broke me when my husband said he hated me and wanted a divorce. Luckily we talked bc throwing 11 years of marriage would suck. If lack of intimacy is your reason for wanting out, you should communicate and see what's going on.
Have you communicated these things with him?