Feel like my boyfriend of 5 years has lost interest in me
Lately, I've been feeling like my boyfriend isn't interested in me anymore.
Intimacy has reduced unless it's sex and then he won't do foreplay or even try to make me orgasm. He spends more time on his phone or with his friends than me.
Iv brought these topics up numerous times, he won't change.
Tonight I got the children bathed and in bed, house all cleaned and food done before he came home. I laid the table and got dressed up, he came in and laughed at me laying the table and putting candles out etc. Said I look nice. It was like I was forcing him to sit at the table with me, he even turned the tv on and watching it from an awkward position as we at the dining table. I said can't we have some quality time, he said we are aren't we. He finished his food, took the plates out, and now he is sitting on the sofa again.
I'm really fed up, I don't understand why men won't just come out and say I don't love/like you anymore or just say what the problem is or even that he has found somebody else. If I bring this situation up he will turn it around and say I'm the problem etc.
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@Lav i couldn't agree with this more
Yes! Like Lav said men love a confident woman minding her business. He’ll be all around you for attention when he doesn’t get any. Till you beg and show you need something from him he’s not gonna bother… be beautiful confident and care less about him
Don’t chase, attract by focusing on urself. If ur doing ur part then don’t do anything extra. Value urself and he will start to see value in u
I hate men
@Katie 🤣🤣🤣
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Omg. So sorry. That is just nasty of him. In such situations I just treat the guy exactly as he has treated me and they'll be the ones crying even more. I just say well you were doing it and I said please stop but you didn't. So I got in on it too. Usually they return to factory settings g's or I know I am over him to so he can go of he wants too. But that's my petty side lol. I always say ignore ignore ignore that man child and focus on your children tbh. Work on yourself to be a better partner and mum and yourself you will be just okay. He will either join you or you will know what to do next. Nothing they hate more than their woman ignoring them smdh yet they think they can do it. Be pleasant but ignore him and his bs. Then you'll get a feel where to move on from there.