Just found out gender of second baby 🙈

Hello ladies! I’m a boy mom of a 2yr old & currently 12 weeks pregnant! We just checked the gender & found out I’m having a girl!!!! 😭💓 I literally started crying just full of emotion. I honestly didn’t care what I had, I just pray for a healthy baby. I felt I was having a girl, BUT a side of me kinda wanted another boy. Just the thought of raising a girl, a BLACK girl at that, in this world is sooooooo scary to me. I feel like I have to protect her from everything! I just have mixed feelings. I am happy tho that it is a girl because my pair is complete now 😇And my son is still the only boy! I didn’t want to take away any love from him because we’re having another baby, but he’ll still be the most important guy in my life 🤍 I’m super happy now that I know the gender and can finally start shopping. But if any mamas have any advice about raising a girl & the difference compared to boys. Any encouraging words, anything I’m open ears..