Men = stress

So my curiosity got the better of me as i had a gut feeling and i went through my BD/boyfriends phone while he was asleep and found a lot… debts to be paid, msgs with other girls, and just genuine lies he’s told to be proven as lies. It all dates back to from when he made me his girlfriend to today’s date… I’m stuck on what to do about it as how do you approach something so unsettling, i have 12 days left till my due date so i’m very hormonal and just fed up as it is anyway but i can’t bottle this up for too long or it won’t help me or baby when i’m already struggling. He was caught out lying at the start of the relationship but it was minor about where he was living at the time as he was embarrassed but we’ve moved way past that now but clearly he hasn’t as he is still lying… its like he’s just got caught up lying and carried on which as we all know lies always catch up to you at some point. I took pictures of everything as proof just incase i do decide to approach him about it but i’m thinking of i straight up ask him about it and ask him for the truth and if he doesn’t then show him the proof… do i do that today or wait? my head feels like it’s going to fall off i wont lie🥲

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Ask him. Happened with my ex but thankfully I wasn’t pregnant. He had slept with so many women and Coudnt see myself been with him anymore . I left him the same day , but obviously you having a baby with him is a whole different situation and I can’t tell you to leave . But definitely ask him about it . I know you were not supposed to go through his phone but I always advise my girls to go through their mans phone when they have the chance because it really opens your eyes

@Justina it’s so difficult with the baby on the way and i’ve had it in the past with exs who i’ve easily left for less but yeah i totally agree i probably shouldn’t of went snooping but when a girls got a gut feeling u gotta trust it🤦🏼‍♀️😅

I went through a similar situation when I was pregnant. Bd was sleeping with another woman and she messaged me about it. He denied it but she came with receipts and recordings. I would ask him about it to put your mind at ease. He is more than likely going to deny everything of course. IMO, I think when a man starts off lying it only gets worse. If they can get away with the small stuff, they tend to think they can with everything.

It’ll be easier without him

Just know that he’s going to keep lying, if he’s been lying all of your relationship then unfortunately I would advise to leave him. You don’t wanna be a mum to a new born then having stress about your man lying and cheating. Stress can be an unhealthy & awful thing when you have a new born. I’m sorry your going through this ❤️

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