Married friends ?

I need more married SAHM friends… I have a close friend who I confide in so I recently told her I was thinking of returning to work and how I felt bittersweet about it her reply is she didn’t have that privilege and that she doesn’t have a husband to provide and that she feels a female should always have their own I agree but that’s not what I need to hear my husband is a great provider I want for nothing I’m just going back for my mental health but of course two incomes wouldn’t hurt why is it that she makes me feel guilty or wrong for being home