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NARCISSISTS DON'T LOVE THEIR KIDS. CHILDREN ARE ONLY "NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY" TO THE NARCISSIST... that is, they are there to make the narc look good, to prop up their image as a loving parent and spouse, However, they are not ends in themselves as children should be. They are extension of the narcs ego and image. My NarcX always played the perfect parent in public, but ignored, neglected, confused and abused the kids behind closed doors. If the children cannot be supply or props for their image, they are disposable, and it's a waste of time trying to make sure the kids have a good relationship with a narcissist, or that the narc do the job of a good parent all the time. It won't happen. Just be a good parent yourself so the child understands real parental love and so, gives it to their own children. In fact, the narc will willingly hurt the kids to hurt you. That's evil and sadistic, not love. - credit :freedom from a narcissist

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It’s sad but true 💔 ( I have a narc bd ) & I noticed all these bad traits when I learned & heard similar stories / experiences/ situations that I could relate too, experiencing & still currently living ( feeling stuck & scared but looking for ways to set myself up so that I’m capable of being a solo parent & hopefully get full custody if it comes to that ) no narc parent deserves their child in their care

Yup - perfect parent in front of camera or other people, even jumped in their play pen and holding them during a house inspection during our rental.. behind closed doors did absolutely nothing for them, would call my oldest (now almost 3yo) a narcissist/r***rd/idiot for essentially being a kid, if they came up to him for some attention and tried to climb on him he’d say something to the effect of “it’s called personal space - learn it” and push them away or “don’t touch my d**k, it’s just weird bro” if they touched his LEG. Got possessive/weird about me bf/showering with them. I left in November, they haven’t seen or had contact with him since and the improvement I’ve seen in such a short amount of time is astounding! They’re generally happier, have less tantrums, better sleep/less wake ups, developmentally they’ve also come along way and they don’t even call out for him (no words of dada) or seem to miss him. I honestly regret staying as long as I did

@Sharnee oh my days do you have a camera to my life? This proves that narcissist have the same traits. Bless you babes

It’s not easy. Sending you love & strength mama ❤️

I have a narcissist father that I'm no contact with and had to accept this!