Partner..
This will sound really bad what I’m about to say. But all my partner does it moan which will sound really mean. But if it’s not about being tired, it’s mess or it’s money or it’s work or it’s the weather or it’s having no appetite and I know 2 babies is hard. We’ve a 6 month old and 2 year old, I struggle leaving them both I only trust my sister and mum (his family have crossed boundaries). He constantly moans we don’t have time but when we do have time it’s not enough. Once a month we try to a big date night then once a week a wee coffee, hour just us and when they are asleep we try have time. I dunno what else to do, but it’s so draining 😔
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Thank you!! I feel anything I do isn’t enough even when we do have time he doesn’t seem there, it’s sooo difficult
I get that, it’s hard to feel present and tuned in when there is so much going on in life at this stage. Just keep trying and communicate with each other!
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The roommate phase is so hard… I can’t even find the time for coffee or date nights at all! Just keep trying to prioritize your relationship and acknowledge that you’re both tired and stressed etc. this is just a season of life! Maybe try finding a new hobby together, or ask your partner what you can do that would make them feel special.