Does anyone else feel unheard

Does anyone else ever feel unheard by their husband more often than not? Anytime I try to talk to my husband about anything important I feel like he just shuts me out and doesn’t want to hear anything I have to say. For example our housing is at stake and I attempted to talk to him about it and he doesn’t want to hear what I have to say. So I feel not only unheard but like I have no one to vent to. Then as I’m posting this after just trying to talk to him about something and him litterly just shutting me out and saying he didn’t care to hear what I said he comes over and tells me to talk to him about it instead of posting this. My response was why when you don’t care to hear me.