Child support

I just filed child support it was the hardest thing to do in my life. I feel so heartbroken having to do that to somebody. I once loved I tried my hardest to figure something out with him just crying when I submitted it. I never wanted to do this and I’m scared For the process of this and what’s coming.

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I had to do this has well it was the hardest thing ever. Especially since he was my person. I promise it does get better I thought it wouldn’t but I have been taking it day by day you got this ❤️

Im about to go through the same process and divorce at the same time I definitely understand how you feel

@Megan all I could think about is their feelings and how they feel and they never think about my feelings or what I’m going through and today was the day I submitted it and today’s the day I start thinking about me not other people’s feelings cause they don’t do the same

@Keisy that’s right I’m so proud of you. You better keep in mind that you’re worth more you’re strong you’re beautiful and everything will fall in to place standing on business you keep that chin up

I was the same way I was like I can’t do this like omg this is wrong but on the other hand I said to myself he abandoned us and this is the right thing to do! I filed almost 6 months ago and they are having a hard time finding him. It does get better you had to do what best for you and your kiddos

I had to do this for my oldest son, me and his dad are also getting divorced. The process is fairly easy. Stand on business and don’t let anyone steamroll you. You’re doing what’s best for u and that precious baby.

@Megan I just told him I’m sorry I have to start doing what’s best for me and my daughter. That is help with the roof over her head that is her going to childcare and me getting a job. I don’t have nothing. We were a family. He was my financial support. He decided to up and leave I have nothing and he doesn’t wanna help. There’s nothing else I can do at this point but go get to help myself.

You got this you ever need anyone to talk to I’m always here! You have to remember you are strong and you got this don’t let him talk down to you.

He literally told me not to put him on child support because I would ruin his life and his dreams and that he was going to give me 300 dollars mind you Im not working and he abandoned me and his daughter