Right there with ya mama 🫶🏽
I feel ya. I've yelled at my son and gave him a slight push once and still feel guilty about it. He thought I was being silly so he wasn't phased by it. I found books for him about feelings that explained how to better react to situations. It's worked for both of us managing these power struggles that come with having a toddler.
I completely understand it's so hard when you're trying to direct your children the best way possible and it seems like everything you doing is wrong but the only advice I can give is make sure you apologize after give a hug and a kiss
@Love I second this! Talk to them, explain what happened and give hugs and kisses !
I've done it once (pushed my child and yelled go away) and he just laughed in my face. I burst into tears straight after. I've never felt so ashamed in my life. You are not alone:)