Reflux at night

My little boy is 7 weeks old and has been suffering with reflux, particularly when he’s been put in his crib. I hold him up for over half an hour and we are feeding him little and often but every time he’s put in his bed he spits up within 10 minutes and will fuss and cry and not settle or sleep in his bed which is so difficult as I can’t get any sleep. He will fall asleep in our arms no problem. Has anyone else had any experience with this or have any advice, it would be much appreciated!
TIA

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What bottles are you using and are you paced bottle feeding?

I don't have any advice but my little one is 4 weeks and I'm going through the exact same and it's beyond exhausting 😔
We're on gaviscon but not convinced that's helped.
Have you looked into cranial osteopathy, I've booked in as heard good things but it's an expensive gamble but willing to try anything x

I’m using mam bottles and yes, he takes little breaks anyways which is good. He hasn’t coughed or choked on the milk since we’ve made this change. Im feeding expressed breast milk but I also get him on the boob at least once a day

isn’t it!! I feel for you! We’re not giving him any medication currently but was advised to try infacol which I’ve been given just in the evening feeds. I’ve heard about it but will definitely do my research! I know there is someone who does it near me and I’ve heard good things!x

We put the crib on a slight tilt so his head was a tiny bit higher than his body and that really helped
Luckily my next to me cot had the option to do this but my health visitor initially mention just putting a few magazines underneath to raise it if it didn’t

we’ve done the same but I don’t feel like it helps masses. Had a much better night last night though so hopefully it’ll continue!

No advice just my 7 week old is going through the exact same thing. I know how you feel momma! It’s hard!

Hi, I am going through a similar thing and wonder if you are still going through the same thing or what you did to help? Xx

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Been together more than 10 years, but it's been a while since he even seemed remotely interested in me getting on my knees, or vice versa so to speak. I think it was once last year. Must be something I am doing wrong 🤔. Generally everything else in that department is great and we have two young kids with no extra support, so it's quite surprising we can't keep our hands off each other but may need to try new things. It's basically 2 positions each time with some foreplay.

I think Motherhood has made me more bitter than I realized…

This is such a ramble but I don’t know where else to put it all.

I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

Maybe I need a therapist.

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Just anxious to try it, don’t want her to get used to it and then refuse bottles again after two weeks of using (correct me if I’m wrong but I’ve read you use it for 2 weeks max)

TIA 🙂