Anyone else’s toddler scared of public toilets?

My daughter’s been potty trained since August, she did very well and got quickly. But in the last 8 weeks, she won’t use the toilet when we’re out. She’ll hold it. E.g from 8:30 till we were home at 3 when she was really desperate. She is scared of hand dryer so I’m not sure if that’s got anything to do with it. I’m just looking for some tips and advise how to encourage her to go in a public toilet. At the moment she will get stress if you head to the toilet or won’t go anywhere near it and I’m 8 months pregnant and have nearly wet myself a few times because she won’t come to the toilet. At home she’s brillant, wipes herself, washed her hands with prompts etc
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Do you have a travel potty? Is it just the big toilet she’s scared of? Holding wee 8:30-3 means she’s not drinking enough water or she must be so uncomfortable :-( Get a travel potty and go to other quiet places. Disabled toilets are bigger or women will understand if she’s going near the sinks. When I had my baby and the change table was near the dryer I had to ask people politely to use a paper towel as he was terrified!! Maybe at home use the hairdryer and get used to the noise?

My son is terrified of the hand dryers so he will hold it, but we're not out that often for long periods. Definitely something I am working at him overcoming though.

@Jay, that’s good to know my daughters not the only one. The problem is we live quite rural so when we need to go out it’s usually half a day/ full day.

@Francesca, I don’t think it’s not drinking enough, she’s always been quite good at drinking, she holds herself when she’s out but won’t go. We have a travel potty but since using the big girl toilet she doesn’t want to use it anymore 😩. We do try with disabled toilets. Weirdly she loves the hair dryer 😂 just not a hand dryer, but I think it’s because she knows when the hair dryer is going to make a noise if you get me. Where has a hand dryer is random

My LO loves the hair dryer but is petrified of the hand dryer! I always take one of those collapsible toilet seat inserts with me (it’s a panda’s face that always makes my LO laugh) and then I sanitise our hands in the cubical. I don’t bother with washing them so we can just run out past the dryers!

My daughter is the same 😭 ! She refuses to even sit on her portable potty when we’re out and about. I think the comment left by Francesca raises some good points. I might try them.

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