Am I wrong?

Posting this to understand if I am at fault or I have just become too sensitive after postpartum. I gave birth to my daughter almost 6 months ago and use to have average relationship with my inlaws.Before and during birth,they came to live with us for 4 months.During this course,they wanted to invite their daughter and son in law along with two kids.I was never in agreement with this bcz I wanted to relax during my 9 month and wanted my husband’s time.One day prior I was told that my SIL along with her family will be there before birth and stayed for almost 4 weeks till I gave birth.Household chores were very difficult in my final weeks for 8 people in house. My MIL was quite helpful with preparing food after birth but has a habit of commanding me everytime for little things.My FIL is no less and said many things with pinched me a lot during small arguments such as ‘Astrologers said -girls like you never get married .If you would have come soon before your son’s marriage,I would have never let this marriage happen.She is not right for you’.I am still figuring out the logic why would anyone say that after 8 years of marriage during fight. I have endured enough till 3 months after postpartum and I think I was in severe depression but everyone including my husband made things worse for me.My husband behaves like an ideal son and never says anything to his parents.Sometimes,he even says thin in agreement with my inlaws taunts.Now when they are gone,I do not feel any love and respect for my in laws.My relationship with my husband is now very limited bcz I think when I needed him he was never there mentally.Now,he feels I should forgive the elders bcz they realise they can be wrong and have normal relationship with them. My only question is who is going to pay for my mental health and the trauma I have endured postpartum till 3 months?Am I at fault or just over-reacting?