Does it get better?
My LO is 4 months & I’m 18, since having him I just feel like I’m missing out on so much of my life & like went on holiday for a few days the other day & I thought it would make me feel better coming back to him after but he’s just been crying & everything, the holiday just kinda reminded me what my life could have been like & I feel so bad feeling like all this but I don’t know how to just get over it, I dread every evening even when he sleeps ok, I dread waking up, I dread dealing with the crying I just don’t want to do any of it but I know I have to I wish I could just enjoy motherhood. I don’t know what to do. Does anyone have any advice or know how I can just forget about my old life & move on.
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It does get better! Soon he will become more independent. It got better for me around 6 months. Give yourself grace and never look at your baby with hate. He'll be grown before you know it
It does get better! I had mine at 19 and I’m 22 gonna be 23 in May. It was so hard at first but try to not be to hard on yourself. Having a child is life changing and hard work. Once you have routines down (trying to set aside time for yourself) is going to be the biggest thing to help you. I just started last year really working on myself again and trying to find my hobbies and who I am again. 🫶🏽your are doing great
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Your still in there. It took me a while to see this too. 1. The feeling shall past 2. You have to make ur self Care a priority. Not a shower ..nothing like that.. something that makes u happy everyday. Once us moms stop thinking about ourselves... we tend to forget.. so Don't forget. Respectfully 😊