This is a girl thing?

My baby girl is 9months old but she is so stubborn and loud sometimes she scares me. She literally yells at me shouts at me and when she is standing I try to hold her hands she pulls her hands out from mine and tries to stand on her own and than obviously she fall and cries. And another thing she is so clingy I sit with her to play she tries to climb onto me pulling my clothes and just doesn’t let me go and ofc shouts my head of and whinging literally on some weird strange sound she makes. I don’t know if this is a girl thing? Because I got two boys they never did like this or behaved like this or even shout like this. She even makes the angry grumpy face when she doesn’t get what she wants and it’s hilarious but scary at the same time oo and she hits me and pinch me my eyes my face proper painful even she is a baby😅and she violently attacks me when I’m eating or in fact anyone is eating she jumps at us and wants the food like she is not been fed or something😳we got a toddler too he is such a gem so kind and loving toddler and not violent at all not even naughty we skipped the terrible 2 I guess. But my daughter she is completely opposite and I wonder where did she learn all these 🤔 anyone else baby acting like this ? Or is just mine like a crazy chicken😂