Attachment is a b**tch
Anyone have attachment issues and can't let their partner go? I don't feel emotionally connected or feel I'm being treated the way I should be, our relationship hasn't been going good for a while and I keep forcing it thinking he'll change someway somehow but I'm scared to be alone and do this alone, our baby is 4 days old and I'm having ppd bad. Anyone have any advice on coparenting and being alone?
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Waiting for change that won’t happen is only going to cause you more pain and suffering than it’s really worth. I stayed for too long thinking he’ll change, giving excuses for his behaviour. It didn’t end well. I left in November, haven’t seen him/spoken to him since. He hasn’t seen our kids and won’t be present for the birth of our 3rd.
I feel sort of the same I have some weird hope that things will work with my baby daddy… he shows no reason for me to believe it but I do…. I’m not even scared to be alone I know life will be simpler so I literally cannot explain it… I guess it is attachment I have no real advice just wanted you to know your not alone in that feeling x
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so me ! The first 2 weeks are the hardest & most loneliest but only if you let it hit you that way. Understand you’re leaving for good reasons ! 1. He doesn’t treat you the way you should be treated 2. You’re forcing something that isn’t there 3. You’re waiting for him to change when you can just change the situation. Don’t be scared to a single mom, it’s better to be alone and find happiness rather than being with someone who takes away your happiness, go on walks with your baby, get off social media ( if you have any ) note down your day and how you want to be / feel better the next day, do things that will distract you, create a schedule / routine you can go by