Potty training....Tips

Any potty training tips? My little girl has started having wees on the potty. She's not telling us she needs a wee we're just asking her if she wants to sit on the potty so very hit and miss. Any tips welcome 🙏

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We was the same the first week i had to keep asking and reminding her however the second week i tried not reminding her as much to see how she got on and she just got it in the end. I had a sticker chart to start with and by the end of week 2 we got rid of it. She’s 3 in april so she’s a little bit older i think but we tried 2 weeks before this time and she just wasn’t ready, then we tried 2 weeks later and she just got it so much easier it’s weird but that 2 weeks really made a difference 🙈

@Tasha I'm wondering if she's not quite ready yet as she doesn't seem to full understand. She'll be 3 in May. She's been going at nursery aswell but again they've been asking her if she wants to sit on the potty she's not said she needs it x

My son is the same. His 3 in May and sometimes his interested and has done a wee in potty but most time he doesn't care about it. Worried he be in nappies at school lol

@Sophie lol its hard isn't it when they seem like they're getting it then the next they're not x

My son has been potty training for over a month and doesn’t always say still. But goes when we ask and barely has accidents.

We used rewards etc but now only do a reward after a dry day and will soon phase that out.

I found when I relaxed and embraced the accidents he was much calmer and happy to follow what I asked and got really excited everytime he did a wee or a poo

I find putting her in no underwear and just trousers reminds her that she actually can’t go toilet. I’ve introduced pants not however and no accident in months. Wees and poos on the toilet

My daughter has been potty trained since a week before her 2nd birthday, she’s even potty trained at night too now! I found the best way was to stay in the house for a week with her and let her have no bottom half on at all, she did have accidents and I just asked her where are we meant to wee and she would say the potty, I’d often sit her on the potty and just kept reminding her where to go then I praised her for using the potty

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