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@Courtney I’ve thought about it for sure. I’m allergic to latex, so I feel like I’ve been using that as an excuse not to get them even though I’m sure there’s latex free ones. I’m starting to think that’s my only option. If anything maybe that’ll push my husband to actually try instead of not really caring about it because he sees I’m serious about it 🤷♀️
I feel you, the same here. So frustrating
I don’t and I really miss it!
My husband doesnt do any of nothing with me … I’m just slithering away
My husband stopped for the longest time and then only rarely did it. I asked him a few weeks ago If he likes going down on me and why if he does i rarely get it because i miss nutting on his face.
I’m just generally not even interested in sex since having my twins, I think of that extra hour I won’t get back of sleep 😂😂
My OH can't understand why some men hate it so much, as he is very much the opposite 😅.
I've never cared for it but I heard drinking lots of water and eating pineapple can make you sweeter, no idea if that is true but if you like pineapple it's worth a shot
@Rebecca this doesn’t help me feel better at all lol
@Anna that’s a great point, I’ve recently been drinking nothing but water, so maybe it’s at least a little better. I should definitely try pineapple too. It wouldn’t hurt 🤷♀️
Maybe you go talk to gp about it see what gp could suggest to hopefully get back what you desire.
I don't get any anymore. He says he loves it but stopped doing it. Recently he keeps saying he'll do it but doesn't. When I bring it up he wants me to shave. I'm pregnant and get lightheaded trying to shave there. But anyway he keeps wanting me to give him oral. I said no he has to shave first. He's not happy about it, I don't actually need him to shave it but just want him to know how I feel. It still hasn't changed anything I haven't gotten any in months.
@Heaven my husband said it started being “bad” when I was pregnant. It took him over a year to finally tell me what the problem was, and the entire time I didn’t get any. I stopped giving him any head, and I told him “I’m not giving you any because I’m not getting any” he got upset and said “I didn’t realize it was transactional” and I said “it’s not, but it’s not fair” I rarely give him head now.
@Madeline I thought about that, but everything is completely normal. I’ve never had any issues personally. No weird smell, nothing. And I would always shower every day, and before we had sex, so it’s not hygiene either. I’m pretty sure it’s just hormones 🫠
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Try using boric acid suppositories. Maybe your PH is off
Hi, are you taking a women’s probiotic? A great one in my opinion is https://a.co/d/8y5z7JW Sometimes out PH gets thrown off, especially after birth.
Every so often! I don’t really care much for it to be quite honest x
I’m single but I never got it either. Always blamed hair down there . Which some hair is natural 😫
Simple. If he doesn't give it to you, then don't give it to him.
if you’re worried about taste i’d see the doctor! other things that help are cranberry juice and pineapple juice (good for vaginal health and allegedly make it taste sweet) they also have vitamins that include cranberries that are good for your lady parts. all vag’s have a flavor! if you’re washing with gentle fragrance free soap and have no UTI or BV those things i listed above should help 😊 flavored lube doesn’t sound pleasant for the other party imo so i would try to work from the inside out
@Tiffany have you used these? i wanna buy them but i dont want to if they’re bullshit 😳😜
I know some lesbians use dental dams as means of steering clear of STIs, would one of those be worth thinking about? They're not the sexiest things in the world, but might be a good compromise.