Not sure what to do

My husband is not supportive and emotionally abusive
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Just been a rough time he is not physically abusive but emotionally

I cannot leave now as I am 8months pregnant but he puts me down biweekly

Have you spoken to him about ?

Being pregnant is not a reason to stay in my opinion, if he’s not supportive - you’ll be better off on your own. Speak to some domestic abuse charities (emotional abuse is DV) to get some support to leave x

Thanks for your message he doesn’t realise it he says he blames me he says I am the one attacking and I do not get any support

I've been in your position and you can leave at 8 months as I did, I'm here to talk if you need someone that's been through similar

@Naomi thank you 🙏 did you go and stay with your family? I do not have anyone in the UK

Being pregnant doesn’t mean you have to stay, in fact it’s more of a reason to leave. You don’t want or need yourself or your child around this. Leave now before he becomes physical. Do you have friends/family you can speak to?

He also vapes at home he just started this 3 weeks ago it is in a separate room but because the door does not close there properly it gets through to all the flat I have asked him to stop but he says it is not harmful😞

He knows what he’s saying, he’s a narcissist- making you think everything is your fault. I too have been in an emotionally abusive relationship (not pregnant) and honestly leaving was the best decision x

I did go to my mums but if you don't have anyone to stay with you can go to the council for support and they will help if you explain you don't feel safe at home any longer

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