My birthday is tomorrow too 😊. Happy birthday! I know I can be a homebody but I'd rather just keep it low key. My husband and I are going to go out to dinner. Maybe hit a bookstore or something afterwards. If you're feeling bad maybe just tell him you want to order takeout and do a date night at home. Snacks and a movie. Nothing wrong with that.
You could bump you bday celebration to next week? If you're not feeling good, you could suggest that to your husband. Otherwise, you can ask your husband for a romantic evening at home after kids in bed. Request wine, chocolate, massage, or whatever you don't get often!
Have someone look after the kids and you go for a romantic date night w hubby for your bday?