Am I being childish?

Okay so as we know valentines is in two weeks and I’ve been seeing a lot of guys asking their significant other to be their valentines and making it so cute and romantic and I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost three years and for the past two valentines I was never asked to be his valentines and I have been sending him video about it and hinting him to ask me and he never did and today he tells me that I’m going to love my valentines gift and what not and I not going to lie it honestly hurts me because I want to experience that type of love and to be asked but no matter how much I tell him and hint at him he doesn’t get it and I don’t want to bring it up because I feel like I’m being childish expecting to be asked to be my boyfriends valentines

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Honestly I’ve been with my husband for 5 valentines days now I think? And he’s never asked either. But if it’s serious to you, I would sit down with him and tell him you wish he would ask you to be his valentine. Maybe this year it is too late, but he will know for the future

It’s not serious but it’s the thought you know?

Yeah. And I don’t say this to make you feel bad, so don’t take it that way, but the fact that he gets you something for Valentine’s Day is what is big I think. Some don’t even get that. Maybe it’s just shifting your expectations if it’s not super serious

Definitely talk to him about it. & Keep sending hints. I make sure to remind my bf to ask me and he does 🤣

don’t let the internet or what other people do bother what possibly doesn’t happen for you, I am sure he still very much loves you. Probably easy for me to say cause I know me and my bf will be each others valentines forever 🥰, I do joke about it tho “you haven’t asked me to be your valentines” I’ve also had shitty exs where I wouldn’t get a damn thing for valentines like ever so it’s healing to know I have one forever without possibly asking or worrying. But if it really matters to you and you really want to enjoy that feeling you should definitely speak to him about it.

@Johnna he never got me anything for valentines

I talk to him about it all the time and I never gotten anything and the same goes for our anniversary he literally forgot our anniversary last year and he works night so I was waiting all day for him to say something and he doesn’t so I baked him a cake and cooked his favorite food for when he comes home early in the morning he can enjoy his food while reading the hand written love letter I did for him and in the morning I saw that he only read the letter but left the food on the table untouched and him sleeping in another room like wtf

So that’s already two valentines almost three and two anniversary where he either forgot or didn’t thought about it being important while I go all out for him even on Mother’s Day I get nothing but for him I make sure me and our son get him something

Didn’t you say that he told you that you were going to love your Valentine’s Day gift?

It’s a cute gesture I guess but these people are influencers they are capitalizing on a holiday. Seems like he took the hints and got you a gift this year after not getting you anything the years prior. Gotta take baby steps.

@Johnna he says that every year and I get my hopes up and get all excited and it turns out that something happened and he never got me the gift

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