Would you invite your SIL to your birthday meal if you’re only civil with her
I’m referring to my husbands sister
Sil and I weren’t talking for a while and then In laws kicked up a fuss that I don’t talk to her (she’s been ignoring me so I’ve got fed up of years of this so now choosing not to go out my way to say hi to her anymore)
I (once again, for the millionth time) said I will keep it civil (hi and bye) as long as is able to do the same
If you’re hosting a birthday meal with your close family and friends (not inc parents, in laws) - just your siblings, cousins (inc cousins from hubbys side you’re close to) and some friends. Would you invite your SIL too?
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If in laws aren't going and you aren't close then no I wouldn't. If in laws were there I would to keep the peace as this is now your family unit for your child(ren).
Nope definitely don’t invite her. Your birthday, spend it with who you love and who want to celebrate you
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If the in laws were invited I’d say I suppose you should but as they aren’t then nope I absolutely wouldn’t, it’s your birthday why should you. I’d find it weird if she expected an invite too if you don’t exactly get on