I need advice

Hey yall. I have this one friend I’ve known for 7 years, and we talk daily. 1 month after I told her I was pregnant with my son she announced that she just got pregnant as well. Our babies were born 8 days apart. I got preg 2 month’s postpartum and told her, my husband joked around saying that she was gonna copy me and probably pop up pregnant the next month also. Just as he was right one month later she told me she was pregnant after telling me she didn’t want anymore kids. At this point I feel like it’s obvious that she’s trying to copy me. It’s just really irritating and at this point I’m wondering if I should just drop her as a friend because it’s not only that but other stuff she tries to copy me with.

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what else does she do to copy you? x

She tries to make everything a competition with me and tries to act like she’s better. Copying me getting pregnant twice is already enough, but she tried to move into the same apartment complex As me. And she also tries to make everything a competition even with our babies. She always compares my son to her daughter and tries to act like her daughter is better

@Laci I’m about to be going to school for cosmetology, and all the sudden she wants to go to school for cosmetology

I just feel so sorry for her kids already - they weren’t conceived for their own sake, but as some sort of tool in a competition. ( sorry just seen this is a group for mums in their 20’s and im well into my 30’s - this post just popped up on my feed)

@Nora I totally agree with you, and no it’s all good Mom’s of any age are welcome to respond to this, she is also not financially stable and doesn’t have her own place. She lives with her boyfriend’s grandmother and her boyfriend refuses to get a job. I’ve told her to drop him multiple times but at this point she’s an adult and the decision is up to her

test her with that you gonna do something or eat sort kind food that she hate the most and see if she able to copy that. if not do it then it’s okay. if she actually copy then direct ask her if she copy you.

My sister’s sister in law is the same way! Her and her husband even tried to use my sister & husband’s social security to get a truck right after my sister got a new car! My sister got a house, they got a house! Everything my sister does, she will do months after 😳 It’s crazy how there’s people out there like that! Just pure jealousy

@Jackie oh my gosh that’s crazy. But yes I agree, I believe she’s been jealous of me for a long time

Thats so creepy

@Autumn I totally agree and the sad part is that her baby dad refuses to take care of their baby already, and has no job, yet she still has a relationship with him and made another baby, he’s abusive to her and she can barely afford diapers for her baby. I’m genuinely disgusted and disappointed with her for bringing children into a horrible situation like this just for “competition”

Stay away. Burn all bridges it’s not a joke. She will try to take your husband soon

@Karina yes I agree, my husband was saying the same thing

Oh i would cut her off if she comparing the kids !

One thing is to make things a competition with you but never with the kids…

@Noelle yes I made the decision to cut her off

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