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He’s gorgeous! Btw - I didn’t even notice his lip until I read what the post was about. I can’t imagine anyone sane or normal would laugh at a child but in any case; there’s nothing to even laugh at, he’s literally gorgeous. I totally get having anxiety and suffer with it myself but I have to constantly remind myself, most people are dealing with their own problems to even notice me and mine. So I make an effort to go out with that mentality
Your boy is gorgeous. I didn’t notice the lip until I read the text. Go live your life with him and make memories, you won’t regret it x
He's an absolute stunner 💖
Didn't notice his lip until i read. He's gorgeous. Those eyes 🤩 Live your life with him. Make memories! Walks in the fresh air really helps. You are an amazing Mum!! Xx
Omg he is gorgeous!!! I felt the same way about my son as he was born with clubfoot & at 12 days old he had casts from his toes to his top of thigh on both legs & now he wears ponsetti boots and I used to hide his legs but I got to a point where I actually don’t care what anyone thinks cos my baby is happy, healthy and SO loved. No one is judging you or your baby I promise 🫶🏽🤍🥹
I’ve recently started medication again because of my mental health has gotten worse and I’m struggling with leaving the house too. I need to be the healthiest I can so I can be the best mum that I can. Your LO is so so beautiful. But hun you can’t give from an empty cup. I hope you have a good support system for you and your little one. Please consider getting professional help if you haven’t already, you deserve to be healthy 🫶🏽❤️
I promise you no one is laughing at him. if they're staring, its only because he's adorable. and even if they are whispering about him, which they're not, that would honestly be a them problem. it's up to you to help your baby grow into a boy who embraces his lip because it makes him unique, not hide from others because he sees himself as different.
First thing I noticed is his beautiful eyes and I am sure that’s what majority of people will see! Please don’t let few bellends stop living your life.
But there’s nothing wrong with him x
He's gorgeous!Don't let anyone bring you down!Xx
I didn’t even notice! He’s an absolutely beautiful baby! Just be proud of him and he will learn to be proud of himself
Gorgeous little boy. Nothing wrong with him x
I don’t c a thing wrong with that handsome little man! Show him off bc he’s gonna melt hearts.
The first thing I noticed were those big beautiful eyes! I wouldn't have thought cleft lip if you hadn't written it ❤️ he's gorgeous
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He's beautiful xx
He’s so handsome. I think you’re overthinking it because I wouldn’t have even noticed mama. But postpartum anxiety is soo normal, one day at a time and just remember we are more critical on ourselves than majority of the people around us actually are
What a beautiful baby boy who I’m sure enjoys his life! Try to push away the negative thoughts and enjoy your healthy gorgeous baby! Nurture his self confidence and pride and he will flourish
Beautiful little lad 🥰 don’t let others dictate how you & he love your life together. I think you’ll surprise yourself and be surprised by others in a good way!
I would just like to say thank you everyone just starting to have a cry from your lovely words so happy there’s kind people out there still ❤️
If someone is laughing or whispering about your baby they don’t deserve not even 0,001% of your attention, honestly people who are bad to babies should go to hell, they are all beautiful angels
@Arline I agree they are all beautiful angels and I just want to protect him but I know this world is shit at times and I won’t be able to all the time x
If they're talking it's about how cute he is my goodness and don't sweat it just talk to your doctor about the anxiety it could be ppd
I didn’t notice it until I read. I only noticed those beautiful eyes😍 Don’t put your energy on people’s comments,ignorant people will always criticize something,smart people understand the situation and will show empathy. Focus on things to be grateful for, one of those is YOUR SON! Your son is the dream of many many women dealing with fertility, your son is the dream of those women who gave birth a stillborn, your son is perfect the way he’s! Go out and don’t let stupid people controlling your life; if someone is laughing or whispering because of your boy…. Oh darling, they have a problem, no your son! And that’s not your problem, your responsibility is to make that little one happy but not the rest of the world. If I saw someone laughing, making fun of my baby or something..I would say (to my baby) ooh baby some people have serious mental issues 😂 Stay strong mama, we are teaching them how to face the world 👊💪 and I’m sorry that you have to deal with this, I understand you 💕
He has amazing eyes. ❤️❤️
He is adorable!!!!!❤️
I don't see anything wrong with him, he's a beautiful baby look at his eyes 😍 you don't have to worry about what other people say. As long as you and your baby are happy nothing else matters ❤️
He is soooooooo cuuuuute 🥹😍🥰
I feel u on that
Girl, he is so adorable. Don’t let anybody tell you wrong. You made a beautiful little boy. I don’t even notice his lip at all until you put it in the paragraph. he is beyond adorable, you are an amazing mother too. We are believing in you we all believe you got this. We are all here for you. Just remember, you made a beautiful little man.🥰
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@Rachel I know and I totally understand! I think the way to make him brave and strong to face this shitty world is by your example. I remember I watched this video of a baby girl telling her mom about this kid in kindergarten that told her he didn’t like her hair and she said she replied the kid, “so bad because I love it” And I said, that’s how I wanna raise my baby, confident and strong 💪🏻 no one will never make him feel bad, so I hope you can use that as a motivation to fight your anxiety and show him that it doesn’t matter what other people say he is perfect the way he is 💕
He's beautiful, don't question that! I went to university with a very beautiful woman who married a man with a cleft palate and they've had four sons. Not only will you love your son just as he is, others will too.
Your little boy is beautiful, absolutely adorable. I don’t like going out that much either but my issue is that I’ve put on so much weight that I don’t want people to see me x
What a beautiful little boy! 💙 first thing I noticed is how big & gorgeous his eyes are! 😍 Anyone that would laugh at a little baby have some serious issues & aren’t worth a minute of your energy! I was the same as you though with my first child & was afraid to leave the house. Just out of anxiety & worrying something bad would happen but it gets better. X
He is absolutely gorgeous 😍 show him off he is a little warrior. Don't be hard on yourself it's the toughest job ever being a mammy xox
If I’m honest I didn’t notice his lip at all. I first noticed his gorgeous eyes 🤩you’ve got this! No one out there is judging you or your baby xx
He is just adorable! 😍 Be brave and strong and stand proud for your son. If he is going to encounter people who are unkind or thoughtless about his cleft palate, he needs you to model how to behave. If he sees you faltering then he will feel the same. Whereas if you stand proud and bat off those people who are insincere and rude, he will develop the resilience to do the same. So do it for him. Hold your head up high and smile back at those who are ignorant because you don’t care. It might take some practice but all this doesn’t really matter. Your son is here and he is healthy and wonderful. My aunt has a cleft palate, I’ve never really noticed. She’s such a beautiful person and never let it affect her. Kids can be cruel (and adults unfortunately!) so maybe this is his and your path to teach and inspire others to have more compassion for others and look at the bigger picture in life. ❤️
I mean this in the nicest way possible but honestly nobody cares. Your baby is beautiful and most people just don’t give a shit about other people or their babies. You’re the harshest one to yourself All that matters is you and baby 🧡 Also Joaquin Phoenix had a cleft lip and he’s a very popular looker. You’re all good
I’m so sorry you feel like this - I also had really bad anxiety and found the herb ashwaganda helped me a lot
He is cute 🥰
You know what, if you didn’t mention his lip, I actually wouldn’t have noticed!!!🫶🏼 He is gorgeous XxxX
He’s honestly lovely, that’s the only reason I would stare!
Gorgeous boy God took his time with him ❤️🥰😍 Show him off to the world he is so precious made in the image of God.
Girl he is absolutely adorable!! If anyone has those thoughts that’s a them problem! I have pretty intense anxiety too and struggle to leave the house, if you want to chat message me I’m happy to chat xx
Don’t think like that mama! He’s a beautiful, healthy boy. 🤍 Go live life with him! Your insecurities will go to him if you continue to think like that.