Is it okay for me to leave with my baby?
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@Sarah I’ve known for over a year now, I’ve just held it in thinking I can pretend not to care. I didnt want to leave because I want my son to have both his parents. But now I realised how long I’ve been hurting, and a friend told me maybe it’s time I leave. I want my son and the dad to have a relationship so I won’t want to stop him from seeing my son, I’m just scared that when I tell him I’m leaving, he won’t let me take my son and if I do what if he reports me…like what’s the worst case scenario I don’t know…
Your he's mother and he is he's father as long as you are both on the birth certificate you have rights and your not stopping contact your leaving the family home for your well being and happiness. There is nothing to report as long as he still has contact
You won’t get In any trouble at all. But if he decides to be a bastard he will make it seem like a big trouble for you. He has no right to tell you you can’t leave, you’ve got every right. You will just need to make an agreement on when your son will spend time with him, every other day, weekends, every other weekend etc. but make sure to set yourself some boundaries and don’t let him love bomb you or make you feel pressure and don’t let him cross those boundaries that you set for you. I hope all goes well and you find every happiness ! Xx
I'm on the same situation is awful
If you ever want to speak please do message - similar situation xx
@Sophie im so sorry. How I wish things were different for us both xx hope you’re doing well and coping 💞
@Aimee thanks so much, I’ll dm you xx
The best thing will probably be to talk to a solicitor to know your right
I'm so sorry to read this I can't imagine how you're feeling. I don't think you can get in any trouble but do you not want your baby to have no contact with him?