How would you handle this?

My partner doesn’t care about his medical health so I do it for him like making him go to the doctors and stuff. I have health conditions and when eve I am sick and need to go to urgent care centre he gets upset and gives attitude. For a while now our toddler has been experiencing nose bleeds. Today own was worse. Blood was gushing out of her nose and all her clothe was stained. It happened again this evening so I phoned 111 and they said to get her checked within an hour. Now I can’t handle our 2 kids due to my breathing problem and I have to take our infant as she’s breastfeeding. I told him to follow me and he refused. He said we can go on Monday and she is okay that nothing is wrong with her. I’d rather the doctor tell me there is nothing wrong with her than not knowing anything. He’d rather sit on his phone scrolling through Instagram and neglect our child’s health. I don’t know what to do and I can’t just control my tears

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I’d be really mad with him. Whenever it comes to the children they should come first. She definitely needs to be seen and I wouldn’t be waiting until Monday.

When it comes to baby health this is a no no!!! Anything could be wrong especially with young kids they can’t communicate. He’s get cussed out in the hospital er waiting room i don’t even play like that 😭🤣

My partner doesn’t care much about his health but surprisingly he’s healthy for rarely going to the doctors but when it comes to his kids, he’s on it. When our son first got his nose bruised from falling and hit the step stool, my husband was crying. I had our second boy 2 months old . He got sick from his older brother when he was 2-3 weeks old when we came home and my husband was worried. Told me, if we need to take him to the ER to let him know. Agree with others, she need to be seen asap and NOT wait until Monday.

I hope you dragged that man out by the ear!!

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