I’ve told him multiple times like pull your weight this isn’t the 1950s sir
I was in a relationship where my ex partner was awful (from cheating to DV) to me and my kid, I can tell you this, when I separated from him, I GLOWED, literally, from getting a better job to working out, my peace was the most worthy thing that I got from it and I never looked back, I was a lot more happy knowing that my kid was taken care of the best way possible, that I wasn’t coming to a messy home when I was breaking my back to keep it clean before and more important that my son wasn’t growing seeing how his biological father threatened me, I know is your choice, you can try a longer and heavier talk but if it doesn’t work you have to move on, love, you deserve a lot better than what he’s offering you right now. Good Luck 🤗🤗
Ugh I’m sorry. That sounds so shitty. You deserve better. And like you said, you might as well be single. But I’d rather be single than with a “partner” who doesn’t pull his weight, much less complain about it . Like…who do you think you are? You don’t want this? 👉🏻 there’s the door.