Moving away//venting
Me and my partner haven’t been together very long, 2 years if that. I knew what I was getting into when we got together, we had our son and moved into our first pad luckily it’s still extremely local to my family. Today my partner has to make a choice if he wants to stay where we are or move away.
I know he’s going to stay here for me because my family are here but I feel so guilty that I’m getting in the way of him trying something new. I can’t bare the thought to be far away from my family but I also can’t bare the thought living separately from my partner
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I’m also in a similar situation, I’m from Basingstoke all my family are from there I met my partner 2 years ago and he’s based at RAF Odiham has to decided what his next steps are coming September I know he wanted to go to a different area but he chose to stay where we are currently for another 3 years purely for the fact of our children and family on my side. I felt so guilty because I knew they wasnt what he wanted but I’m sure the same with your partner it’s hard for military spouses when they don’t have their village around
In a similar situation, we stay where I'm from and husband moves around and is home at weekends. What did you decide in the end