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Wth! How can she do that to a nb? Doesn’t make any sense. I feel it’s not to keep ur baby to her. Her attitude seems like a psychopath or else she is dealing w a metal issues.
She seems very jealous of you
Yeah I would keep her away from your child. And you should call her out even if it ruins your relationships that isn’t okay or even normal to do.
She sounds bitter and jealous and would definitely not be holding my baby again
Thats a really weird thing to say to a baby
She wouldn't be coming near my child again.
Before having our baby, my SIL who we've always had an off and on rocky relationship with said she saw a funny tiktok of an aunt whispering curse words into their newborn neice/nephew's ear. She said she of course wouldnt do it if we said no, then asked permission. I thought that was so bizarre. Like dont put that energy onto my innocent new child wtf? Same vibe as your sister.
This sort of behaviour is very sadistic, and to have that attitude towards a baby is disturbing 😳 I would keep your baby far away from your sister.
Thats very crazy I would have said something
Oh baby she would NEVER come around me and my baby any more. EVER.
Keep her a distance , I’m sorry to hear this as your sisters.. but you don’t need her around. Do prayer over your baby daily xxx
You’re not overreacting at all! Maybe underreacting though? Your sister sounds very jealous. It’s sad if she’s not where she wants to be in life right now, but to say such cruel words to a newborn is completely unacceptable. Keep her far away from your baby. And call her out, loudly, the next time you witness this behavior. It’s your responsibility to protect your child now so sometimes seemingly close relationships with others need to be cut when they step over the line. Xxx
Wow that’s wild. I’d be having words and depending on her reaction, I’d be prepared to cut her off! I mean, what the hell?? If she’s not nice to you, there’s no way she is going to be nice to your baby
I used to stay loyal to all the wrong people but now I firmly believe doesn't matter if you're family or known someone you're whole life if they're unhealthy for you to be around and now potentially your daughter to cut them off. Protect your baby and yourself at all costs. Stay strong you got this mumma ❤️
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She would never hold my baby again. You might not be able to avoid her at family events, but she will never touch my child again.
I’m so sorry to hear this. My older sister has been the exact same, never once met my baby, never said congratulations. She’s also divorced and single. She’s been off with me ever since I got pregnant. It’s crazy, she’s never got anything nice to say, and can’t stand to see anyone happy. It’s upsetting because she is my sister but sometimes you just have to cut toxic people out and focus on your own happiness!
No offence but I’d block her number and not talk to her again lol if my sister thought it was okay to speak to my child like that, especially if she thought it was in private, I’m be super mad
That is super weird. If you don’t feel like you can talk to her about it then I probably wouldn’t want her around my baby